Why do we have questions that you can't answer?

This question, though, does seem to have an answer: to cause us to be able to think critically, to learn patience, to understand that we can't have everything we want.

Like one question I have is why do guys problems get explained and excused but girl's have to deal with it, and no one can explain the problem so other's understand it? Maybe someone out there can explain this, but I've asked many and no one yet have given me a suitable answer. But I've realized that it's given me patience with people not understanding something I am going through, even when they are trying to. I know they are going to do their best, and that's what matters.

Another question is just one of my own self, why does what someone once did, not even to me, hurt me? I don't get it they have done their absolute best to solve the problem and seemed to, but why is it that I still am hurt by the past actions? I don't know the answer why but I do know that it has given me the understanding that even though it hurts me I will have to live with it, I can't have all I want.... I can't have an absolute calm about everything.

And then most of the questions that I don't have answers to but cause me to think critically are with the gopsel. I have millions of questions why this and why that.... why can't someone explain to me exceptions that seem to pop up with marrying young, etc... But I start to think, and though I may not get any answer for that question my mind starts to understand different things better or maybe I just start to think deeper and not just "on the surface."